You can't choose how to react before you choose what to believe. If you believe the bad words or bad attitude towards you is something about you personally and not the person speaking you may get hurt. So do not jump to a conclusion before you are sure it is worth crying about. If someone is disrespectful it may be they are in a bad mood, it has nothing to do with you so you don't have to think you have lost their respect or your value in their eyes has been diminished. Always try to understand the person who is speaking.
