The effect of mantras on sexual energy

I feel unbalanced when there is too much sexual energy in certain areas only. I had a lot of sexual energy floating freelee today so I thought I would try to draw it up from the lower chakras by saying my personal mantra (I made by using the words I commonly use when I speak in tounges). When I had repeated it some times I suddenly disappeared into the energy. All I saw was the energy and another woman , with long golden hair, saying another mantra at the same time as me. When I perceived her I became her for a second and spoke her mantra with her voice. Afterwards I said the Bahai mantra Allah-u-Abha and I immediately felt the energy spread out and got a relief from the feeling of being turned on. It is important that the mind is free from thoughts about sex to be able to move the energy from the lowest chakras. If you think about something sensual the energy will stay at the sensual level. If you instead focus on God the energy will definitely move from the physical level. 

I have written about somthing similar earlier in Norwegian here :https://mintankesamling.blogspot.com/2017/10/energiorgasme-tungetale-personlig-mantra.html

Relax! Where are you going?

The more sensitive you are and the less normal orgasms you have the less stimulation is needed to increase sexual energy. If you relax and meditate on the slight touch that is given you will be able to feel the sexual energy separate from the body. Then you are in control of it and can move it upwards from one chakra to the next when one chakra is filled up.

Physical touch is not needed to increase sexual energy. To avoid normal orgasms is enough. One can also use visualization or relaxation and meditation with the sexual energy as the focal point. This can increase more sexual energy than a lot of physical stimulation. The more relaxed and focused you are less friction and fast movements is needed to increase the sexual energy. It is hard to feel the energy itself (separate from the body) when there is fast movements and a lot of friction. 

When sex is used as a tool for meditation with the goal of increasing and lifting the energy to higher energy centers (chakras) you don't need to include penetration and french kissing. You can include it gradually, but you can't start the meditation with it. First you need to develop the energy and keep it under your attention. If not you are out of the meditation and back to normal sex where the energy is in control of you, not the other way around. You can include more and more stimulation as long as you have the energy under your attention (= control). You may or may not want to include more physical stimulation. When you are a beginner you may not be able to control the energy when it gets too physical, so take it easy and start slowly.

I once got so aroused that I reached a peak and fell down into valley orgasm just by receiving the slightest touch not even meant to be sexually stimulating because I hadn't had a normal orgasm for months. The man that touched me didn't even know that I got incredibly horny because I didn't act on the fantasies that popped up in my mind.

The more attention you give to the touch you receive the less pressure is needed to stimulate you. The more you relax the easier it gets to be able to feel the sexual energy separate from the surface of the body.

Fast tounge movements are unnecessary just like the fast movements that some use during intercourse. When you have relaxed enough to be able to feel the energy separately you can include kissing, penetration or other ways of stimulating the sexual energy. But never miss focus on the energy or you will not be able to have an energy orgasm and you may be tempted to have a normal orgasm. When you lose your attention on the energy it will take control of your body, so use reins on your horse to keep the body in control.

If you avoid normal orgasms you can have energy orgasms instead. You can lift the energy when you can feel it separate from your body by the will of your mind from one chakra to the next. I recommend learning Barbara Carellas technique. She shows how to have an energy orgasm on youtube.

If a finger touches you slightly when you are busy doing or thinking you will probably not take much notice of it, but if you are relaxed and receptive you will feel it better. If you meditate on it it may appear magical. You may see the light that shines from it. The one touching can consentrate and make sure the finger (or more fingers and the whole hand of course) express a feeling of love that may open up the receiver.

An answer to: how do I still my mind?

Are you able to be objective to your thoughts? I mean, if you constantly have thoughts about a problem I think to be mindful about the fact that you want to solve the problem by understanding it deeply enough to actually do that (solve it) is the way to go instead of just beeing bothered about an endless stream of thoughts about it that don't solve anything because they are too shallow and negative. If you are aware of the fact that you have a problem and want to solve it you may get assistance; a brilliant thought comes in and interfere with the bunch of stupid and negative ones and are able to dissolve them because the interfering thought is more vibrant and true and was the thought missing to be able to understand the issue and be free from it. Then it is easy to decide not to think about anything and focus on something else than thoughts, or continue to be objective to thoughts and detect new problems to solve the same way. The purpose of meditation is not to supress thoughts, as you know. You don't get rid of thoughts that comes because you need something enligtened. Meditation makes it possible to understand things deeply and become less disturbed as the problems are being solved. Some call this deep state of being when you understand fully contemplation. There is of course thoughts that are just loosely connected to a problem and that are not worth spending your attention on. Then you can, not suppress, but push them away as if they were flies in your face once you are aware of their insignificance. You are in control of what you want to focus on.