Cry and you will reveal the character of the man you are dating.
I have seen many different reactions from men. One was ashamed because he cared about the people around us, so he was vain. One did not mind at all, caught up in his own world. I actually met two of those. One got upset when I got upset and just wanted to leave. Another understood I was upset and needed to cry so he just came up to me and held around me so I could cry. Another criticised me for making noises and told me to cry silently. One was afraid I was faking it, manipulating a reaction like his x wife had done, so he was just sceptical and very cold towards me, telling me to get it together. It seems like God want to test the guys for me so I can see who they are because i may be upset suddenly for no apparent reason. One guy thought we were going to have sex, when I cried he felt uncomfortable and wanted to leave.
The first time i ever cried in front of a man was when I was 21. I knew he would be like a mother, comforting me. I am glad God shows me who is worth hanging out with.
I have seen many different reactions from men. One was ashamed because he cared about the people around us, so he was vain. One did not mind at all, caught up in his own world. I actually met two of those. One got upset when I got upset and just wanted to leave. Another understood I was upset and needed to cry so he just came up to me and held around me so I could cry. Another criticised me for making noises and told me to cry silently. One was afraid I was faking it, manipulating a reaction like his x wife had done, so he was just sceptical and very cold towards me, telling me to get it together. It seems like God want to test the guys for me so I can see who they are because i may be upset suddenly for no apparent reason. One guy thought we were going to have sex, when I cried he felt uncomfortable and wanted to leave.
The first time i ever cried in front of a man was when I was 21. I knew he would be like a mother, comforting me. I am glad God shows me who is worth hanging out with.
