Kommentar til "Jeg har slått mine barn".

http://www.aftenposten.no/amagasinet/Frode-Thuen-svarer-Jeg-har-slatt-mine-barn-7965227.html#.VSelDMgCA9M.facebookJeg tror det kan være nyttig å spole tilbake situasjonen hvor hun ble så sint at hun gikk over grensen og spørre seg om hun kan se en annen løsning på problemet, så hun har et verktøy til neste gang noe lignende skjer. Hvis ikke det er mulig å se en annen løsning spørre seg om det hadde vært så farlig om det trassige barnet hadde fått vilja si (f.eks). Hadde det vært så farlig som at barnet ble slått? Om man har arvet samme temperament, kontrollbehov eller annet som kan ligge bak er det ikke det minste rart hun repeterer sine foreldre. Hun må erfare et alternativ i virkeligheten eller fantasien før hun kan gjøre annerledes selv. Dette er en kvinne som vil finne en god løsning og som til nå ikke visste bedre. Det er da ingen grunn til å fordømme.

To all mothers who have lost a child.

In the Name of the Loving Friend: O MOTHER! Grieve not over the loss of thy son; rather pride thyself therein. Indeed this is an occasion for gladness and rejoicing, not for despondency and sorrow.I swear by the Day-Star of the morn of Truth that thy son hath attained a station such as no pen can depict, nor words adequately describe. His habitation is the realm on high, his associates and companions are sanctified and detached souls, and his sustenance the imperishable and hidden blessings of the Lord. In truth were that lofty and glorious station to be revealed to an extent smaller than a needle's eye before the eyes of them that dwell on earth, they would, one and all, be so filled with joy and ecstasy as to be consumed thereby. Therefore think not that he hath perished. Indeed he will endure in the heavenly kingdom as long as God Himself endureth. And this calleth for gratitude, not grieving. When he findeth that thou art happy he becometh more cheerful, but when he perceiveth that thou art disconsolate, this provoketh anguish in his heart.

Busy thyself in the remembrance of God and unloose thy tongue in celebrating His praise with utmost joy and radiance. God, the Exalted, the True is with thee. He is kinder than a father and more compassionate than a son. Bahaullah

Great article about 5 New Age misconceptions.

http://erinjanus.com/5-common-new-age-misconceptions/Kan egentlig forstå at noen kristne kaller New Age satans verk, fordi noen av "læresetningene" kan lett føre til egoisme. Som å unngå negativitet (andres vanskeligheter og eget ansvar for å ta tak i problemer), ikke ta andre på alvor ved troen på solipsisme, ikke kjempe mot urettferdighet fordi sinne er negativt og derfor "feil", at man gjør hva man vil uten hensyn til andre fordi man tror ingenting er rett eller galt og det å akseptere alt uten motstand som fører til at det onde kan regjere fritt og øke i omfang.

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Eksempler på artister jeg har hørt på i det siste:

Bebe Rexha  https://youtu.be/55OK26tYDfY

Lissie: https://youtu.be/Q0FAPa7lNss

Ellie Goulding: https://youtu.be/0NKUpo_xKyQ

Laura Marling https://youtu.be/GDJPRRUH07k

Lana Del Rey https://youtu.be/hMq2KnudicQ

Marina and the diamonds: https://youtu.be/DCB_MbYyCYQ

Rihanna https://youtu.be/MPQdQd7vY1g

Comfortably numb

http://www.aftenposten.no/familieogoppvekst/Okning-i-unge-som-gar-pa-antidepressiver-509214_1.snd#.VRPe4H1Z9O4.facebookSom om det var følelsene som var problemet! På tide at det blir snakket mer om hvordan takle følelser, fremfor å kollektivt bedøve dem med piller, narkotika, sulting, overspising, oppkast, overtrening/overaktivitet og alkohol. Er det ingen kjærlighet til å romme følelsene? Jo, men hvem er troende?

Sex questions

What is it about masturbation that is no good? Is it the energy that are removed with the orgasme? Is it the fantasies? The focus on it? Is it that you do not make a union? What if you do it to raise the energy and do not have a normal (top) orgasme and don't touch yourself physical at all, or as a meditation where you give up your own will? Is masturbation wrong when it is done just to have pleasure? or release tention? 

What is sex? Is it the action or the purpose of doing it the most important? There should be no shame in our sex life. That is why this topic is important to discuss.

I have wanted to understand what it is about sex before marriage that is wrong and have given it much thought and also experimenting. Is it because it can make children? Is it because noone should be used for pleasure, is it because the energy should not be used for pleasure? It is not for pleasure but for making union? Is it because they don't love each other yet? Is it because many get feelings for someone they have sex with and the same don't always happen with the other? 

And why is it forbidden to love someone of the same sex physically? Is it because of the energies that do not unite, or do they unite? Is it the anal- sex that is unhealthy? Is it unhealthy physically or energetically? Is it because God never meant that some of the same sex should fall for each other, but that something happened that made someone stumble out of the straight line? 

For me the most important to understand now is the energy-aspect of relationships and methods. Anal sex has some effects that genital sex hasn't. Not very much is known about the subject unfortunately, and not strangely, since it is tabu. Everything can be negative or positive, it depends on when /where it is used. If it is suitable or not.

Can something done in love or making love be a sin? I don't think so. If what you do, either you do it by your self or someone else no matter the gender, it is pure when love is involved. When the ego is withdrawn everything is well.