Important quotes from the bible about human behaviour

Matthew 25:40 

And the King will answer them, ‘Truly, I say to you, as you did it to one of the least of these my brothers, you did it to me.’

Proverbs 29:11 

A fool gives full vent to his spirit, but a wise man quietly holds it back.

Proverbs 17:17 

A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.

Proverbs 15:1 

A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.

John 15:12 

“This is my commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you.

Romans 12:10 

Love one another with brotherly affection. Outdo one another in showing honor.

Colossians 3:12-14 

Put on then, as God's chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive. And above all these put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony.

1 Corinthians 13:4-13 

Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends.

Romans 12:17-21 

Repay no one evil for evil, but give thought to do what is honorable in the sight of all. If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all. Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God, for it is written, “Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord.” To the contrary, “if your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink; for by so doing you will heap burning coals on his head.” Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.

Philippians 2:3 

Do nothing from rivalry or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves.

John 13:34 

A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another.

Luke 6:35-36 

But love your enemies, and do good, and lend, expecting nothing in return, and your reward will be great, and you will be sons of the Most High, for he is kind to the ungrateful and the evil. Be merciful, even as your Father is merciful.

James 1:19  

Know this, my beloved brothers: let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger.

Ephesians 4:29 

Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear.

1 Corinthians 16:14 

Let all that you do be done in love.

Ephesians 4:2 

With all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love.

Galatians 5:26 

Let us not become conceited, provoking one another, envying one another.

Matthew 5:21-22 
But I say to you that everyone who is angry with his brother will be liable to judgment; whoever insults his brother will be liable to the council; and whoever says, ‘You fool!’ will be liable to the hell of fire.

Philippians 2:3 

Do nothing from rivalry or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves.

Matthew 25:40 

And the King will answer them, ‘Truly, I say to you, as you did it to one of the least of these my brothers, you did it to me.’

Proverbs 29:11 

A fool gives full vent to his spirit, but a wise man quietly holds it back.

Ephesians 4:1-3 

I therefore, a prisoner for the Lord, urge you to walk in a manner worthy of the calling to which you have been called, with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love, eager to maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.

James 2:8-16

 For whoever keeps the whole law but fails in one point has become accountable for all of it. 

Ephesians 4:31-32 

Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.

Proverbs 12:1 

Whoever loves discipline loves knowledge, but he who hates reproof is stupid.

Psalm 103:10 -11

He does not deal with us according to our sins, nor repay us according to our iniquities. For as high as the heavens are above the earth, so great is his love for those who fear him.

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An answer to "What can I do about an extremely overactive sex drive?"

A theory is that if you are blocked in the anus ( I assume you are a man) the energy don't go where it is suppose to (from the penis back to the anus and up the spine) and get stuck in the penis. For females it get stuck if she is blocked in the cervix. Both anus and cervix can relax by massage. ¤ If the problem is not that the sexual energy is stuck, but feels everywhere around and in the body, I would recommend surrendering to the sexual energy. Let it be in control and move according to its will. The energy has a latent intelligence. It knows how to remove blockages and open up your body so the energy can move freelee, so if it is too much on one level the excess will move to the next. 

¤ If it feels stuck in the lowest chakra you can connect with the energy and try to express it emotionally. ¤ Another thing you can try is to try to move the energy from the first to the second chakra by focusing on the second chakra to attract it. This may cause you to drown in the unconscious waters for a while, but afterwards you feel better than before. The last method is based on "urban tantra". The first on "the new tantra."

How to deal with kundalini and stuck sexual energy

When I had a lot of kundalini I tried to let the energy move when it felt stuck at the lowest chakra or released it emotionally by contacting the energy on an emotional level. Sometimes, about once a month, it totally overwhelmed me. Then I had to tune into the energy to listen to how the intelligence in it wanted me to move my body to make it flow freelee in my body. The movements I did looked like asanas. I did it for about 30 minutes each time before it was released on another level and I could relax. Now after many years I still do not masturbate or have orgasm while having sex. When too much energy is at the base chakra and I don't try to masturbate to get rid of it the energy will go into the subconscious ( the second chakra?) and stir up something there and be released emotionally. I have experienced that just a single acupuncture appointment made the energy that was stuck at the base chakra move. I also recommend asanas and uncontrolled dancing. Kundalini for me has always been about letting go of control. Go with the energy. Let it take you to new experiences. Youmay also try this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OEznv88LfbY

Want to stop smoking?

Focus on the positive factors of not smoking, stop thinking that you need it, because you don't, it's just a habit you can change into a new one. You want to stop what puts a lid on your emotions and the subconscious and then also the spiritual development you want. Avoid smokers for a while. Drink tea, be more social and physical active.

A peak orgasm experiment in three parts

I wondered if I would feel different or the same energetically after reaching a peak orgasms done three different ways. 

1. I focus on the clitoris while I stimulate it with my fingers.
2. I focus on the clitoris while a man licks it.
3. I focus on my vaginal wall ( not the cervix) while I stimulate my clitoris with my fingers and use a dildo in my vagina.

After 1 and 2 I feel the same: flat, uninterested in sex.
After 3 I still feel stimulated and energetic.

How come? I think the energy are directed outwards when I focus on the clitoris because it is located on the outside.

Åndelig utvikling og dyder

Jeg har strukket meg etter idealer i beundring, blitt kjent med de og deretter integrert de som en del av meg. Funnet de i meg etter først å ha funnet de utover meg selv. Til motsetning har kritikk av "dårlige egenskaper" eller mangel på dyder ikke hjulpet, fordi en forestilling om at noe mangler eller er dårlig ikke stemmer med virkeligheten man ser over det laveste syn på virkeligheten. Å forsøke å dra seg selv opp etter håret eller la noen over deg gjøre det skaper bare lidelse. Det er kun aksept av deg selv med tillit til at du er grunnleggende god som frigjør deg til å være spontan nok til å oppdage og vise nye sider ved deg selv.

Vi har alle egenskapene inni oss, kjente og ukjente, og de kommer frem ved forskjellige situasjoner.
Kanskje din mor som min kalte deg utålmodig fordi du ikke gadd å stå å lytte til hennes materialistiske tanker når hun skulle ønske du ville gjøre det. Men det er ikke sånn at noen er utålmodige. Man bare viser tålmodighet der man selv finner det passende. Vi kan ikke være et uttrykk for en mangel! Når man dømmer og betrakter alt med et negativt, uempatisk syn kaller man andre utålmodige, late, stolte osv. Men er man virkelig lat eller mangler man bare motivasjon? Dette er ikke egenskaper, og du viser ikke ditt sanne selv, slik de negative sier, når du en dag blir sint og gjør noe dumt. Dine egenskaper er guddommelige. Du har tålmodighet, sannferdighet, toleranse, omsorgsevne, fred, ærlighet, mot og de andre dydene i deg til bruk ved behov.

For å bli kjent med, utvikle og ta i bruk dydene/ egenskapene kommer vi i ulike situasjoner hvor disse egenskaper passer inn. F.eks. ba jeg til Gud en gang om å la meg bli kvitt min selvopptatthet fordi det var umulig å fikse selv. Da ble jeg gravid og da sønnen min ble født videt hjertesenteret mitt seg ut så mye at jeg følte ubetinget kjærlighet for sønnen min og alle andre barn også.

Hvis vi vil, kan vi utvikle dyder, som medfølelse når vi møter lidelse, rettferdighet når vi møter urettferdighet, fred når vi møter krig, tålmodighet ved motgang, kunnskap når vi møter fordommer, mot ved prøvelser osv.

Som barn var vår oppfatning av f.eks. rettferdighet begrenset. Livets utfordringer åpner opp for muligheter til å lære stadig mer om dydene.

Vi kan be Gud om å få utvikle bestemte egenskaper/dyder, og Gud vil berike vårt liv slik at det gir oss denne mulighet. Alt av det som føles godt og vondt som møter oss i livet er til for at vi skal kunne bli kjent med nye sider av oss selv eller nye nyanser av disse. Vi er her for å erfare hva vi består av og hva som er varig i oss. Vi skal utvikle dydene vi vil få bruk for etter livet på jorden, slik et foster utvikler evner for å komme til verden i morens mage. Vi kan også be Gud om å løsrive oss fra visse ting. De som kalles utålmodige er effektive. De forventer at Gud svarer straks, løsriver straks, renser opp straks og gir straks. Da gjør Gud det straks. Vi trenger ikke vente på den allmektige Gud. Gud gir når vi er mottakelige.

Våre gaver kan også bli stengsler. For eks. er det å kunne analysere og være objektiv gode egenskaper, men kan være i veien for å leve spontant. Å være snill kan i upassende situasjoner bli dumt. Bruk dine egenskaper med omhu der de passer. Du kan stole på at du gjør det om du gir deg selv og andre frihetsrom.

Vi er født med et spesielt temperament og personlighetstype. Ikke sammenlign deg med andre og tenk du burde være annerledes. Ikke prøv å være perfekt. Prøv heller å gjøre så godt du kan, leve ut ditt potensiale og vær autentisk. Gud har skapt deg slik du er, så vær trygg på at du er helt i orden. Gud vil se deg. Se det Han skapte utfolde seg. Se ideen bli til virkelighet. Sitt barn vokse opp.

Finn høye idealer, følg din higen, ikke vær redd du er gal bare fordi du opplever noe merkelig, ha god moral, be Gud og mennesker om tilgivelse ved behov, søk sannhet og kjærlighet, bekjemp all frykt med nysgjerrighet, freidighet og mot, ha tillit til at Gud gir deg det du trenger, ha et åpent sinn og tillitsfullt hjerte som et barn, rydd bort alt det inni og utenfor deg som er unyttig, ikke ta ting personlig, men vær empatisk, omgi deg med gode, likesinnede, ikke dårlige venner, fri deg fra all avhengighet, løs alle knutene i sinnet ditt, erstatt alle negative forestillinger med positive og alle fordommer med kunnskap, jobb terapeutisk med dine traumer og sjokk, føl din smerte, sorg, frykt, frustrasjon, maktesløshet, fortvilelse og sinne på en fullstendig måte, les så du finner ord på dine opplevelser og følelser og ha hovedfokus på det som forener, ikke det som skiller.

Jeg ber hver enkelt av dere å vie alle deres tanker, ord og gjerninger til å bringe kunnskapen om Guds kjærlighet inn i hvert hjerte. Abdul Baha.
Know thou that the Kingdom is the real world, and this nether place is only its shadow stretching out. A shadow hath no life of its own; its existence is only a fantasy, and nothing more; it is but images reflected in water, and seeming as pictures to the eye.

“Cling unto the robe of the Desire of thy heart, and put thou away all shame; bid the worldlywise be gone, however great their name.” (Bahá’u’lláh, Kitáb-i-Íqán, pp. 69-70).

From " A quiet passion"( Emily Dickinson )

Vinnie: You judge too hashly because you judge too highly.

Emily:  Lowering a standard is the first execuse for every villainy.

Vinnie: - and keeping to one high principle is the last refuge of the intolerant.

Emily: -and what of integrity? Austen was once fierce in his defence of it. And now it seems an incomprehense to be easily put aside!

Vinnie: Integrity if taken too far can be equally ruthless!

Emily: - and do I fit into that category?

Vinnie: sometimes.