Vi er skapt, men ennå ikke født

Vi må lide på jorda selv om vi er skapt i Guds bilde
fordi vi er ikke født ennå.

Vi må utvikle oss i denne trange livmorverden
før vi fødes inn i den verden vi er ment å leve i.

Mange føler de ikke hører til på jorden, fordi det er sant.
Her er det ikke plass til hele vårt vesen.

Fødselskanalen er den lystunnelen
noen ser når deres kropp slutter å virke.

Kroppen etterlates som puppehuden til sommerfuglen
når sjelen fødes inn i evigheten.

What women long for in bed.

This is answers I found in a facebookgroup:

Foreplay! Lots and lots of foreplay! Like 45 min of forplay (I like the really long satisfying sex). Explore every inch of her body. tease and tantalize her till she can't think straight and is begging for you and then keep going! Explore how erotic it can be by just breathing a certain way into her ear, how arousing it is to touch places that are nowhere near hey breasts and groin, play with feather light to very firm touch, hot and cold. When you go down on her let it last longer than a meager 3 min (I know your tongue gets tired but how do you think our jaw feels when we go down on you? But we stick it out. Usually) worship her body in such a way that she FEELS like you are worshipping every inch of her. Know when to go hard and fast and know when to go agonizingly slow. If you do it right she will be putty in your hands. Legit one time my man got me going so good with foreplay, getting me so wound up without release, that I came after one thrust! And it was so explosive and amazing you can't begin to imagine. And after we were done (a long while after that first orgasm) I was so satisfied I could barely move. Really guys just take the time. Don't worry about orgasms just focus on her responses and how things make her feel. And don't be afraid to experiment! A blindfold will greatly increase sensations from touch and anticipation. An icecube in your mouth before licking her anywhere will give a wonderful cold-to-hot sensation! Just take the time, experiment, have fun watching her squirm, and just make her feel adored!

I enjoy being held, like REALLY held... to feel SAFE in his arms opens me up for everything.

The important thing for me is to feel safe and wanted. Be open to discover, explore, and discuss all the fantasies without judgement. Empower me to empower you.

Foreplay involves both my mind and body. Communication, vulnerability, trust, touch.

#1 is being recognized as a divine goddess... to feel worshipped, to have his full focus and communication. I love to feel a man turned on by me, and the reciprocation that happens when we are turned on by each other's turn on... mmmm
#2 is SLOW DOWN AND TOUCH EVERYWHERE... far too often it's jump straight to the most sacred spot and ignore the magic of touch all over the body. Use your breath, your fingertips, your nails, the palms of your hands. Rub your erection against me without penetrating. Wait for me to beg you to enter. The payoff is well worth it
#3 is, don't run away after you've cum! Those intimate moments after lovemaking and orgasm are so fruitful and delicious. Stay in that creative, comforting, juicy space for a bit of extra time. Soak up that juiciness.

L👀k at ME, See ME, l👀k in my eyes as you please me, let me see you as I please you. Slow down and enjoy the process. Enter me slowly-know that I am taking you in to my Divine Feminine.

 To be wanted. To be adored and to know/feel that my pleasure is important as his own. To be reciprocated if he wants something. To be kissed, endlessly. To be so lost in the sensations that I can’t help but to not hold back. To be desired and appreciated and touched and kissed everywhere just like I want to touch and kiss everywhere. To connect.

Men's arousal starts in his cock and spreads outwards, women are the complete opposite. These are my desires: start with caressing, touching, exploring the extremeties, our breasts, our torsos, our legs, our bums... Lots of kissing too. Slow down and try to realize this is sex for us, not just penetration. Penetration for me only feels right if my entire body and heart are open and feel safe to surrender to my man. My very favorite treat is a sensual oil massage...*omg* Something I've noticed if I ask for some of these things from a partner is that it will feel like he's performing a chore. This completely shuts me off and sometimes it can feel like my heart is literally breaking. This is why I think it's so important that men try to enjoy and get pleasure from satisfying your woman. And because I care so much about my man's pleasure I will also say, we have so much pleasure to give as well. I love to worship my man's body but it can feel all wrong when I'm not feeling loved and worshiped in return.

A minute feels like a whole day in that slow slow foreverness of touching sooooo gently like fingertips on the caress...the almost not touching just barely barely.

To be teased, explored, touched, kissed all over, and seen before being entered.

A real and deep connection. Slow movements, intimacy, breathing together. I want to move, I don't want to be blocked by his body on me, I have to dance, to follow my own rithm. And sometimes I want to be held in his arms, feel surrounded by his presence. Also, I want to be fucked by his eyes even before I undress my body.

Cry woman!

Cry and you will reveal the character of the man you are dating.
I have seen many different reactions from men. One was ashamed because he cared about the people around us, so he was vain. One did not mind at all, caught up in his own world. I actually met two of those. One got upset when I got upset and just wanted to leave. Another understood I was upset and needed to cry so he just came up to me and held around me so I could cry. Another criticised me for making noises and told me to cry silently. One was afraid I was faking it, manipulating a reaction like his x wife had done, so he was just sceptical and very cold towards me, telling me to get it together. It seems like God want to test the guys for me so I can see who they are because i may be upset suddenly for no apparent reason. One guy thought we were going to have sex, when I cried he felt uncomfortable and wanted to leave.

The first time i ever cried in front of a man was when I was 21. I knew he would be like a mother, comforting me.  I am glad God shows me who is worth hanging out with.

Altering truth

He recognized the truth to be altering 

as heaven came down upon him

and adjusted to it as if he had never 

been ashamed to stand in its midst before. 

He knelt before the throne of the heavenly father 

who with his sceptre judged between good and evil 

and threw himself in his fathers lap and thanked him 

for giving him the truth that changed him

because he knew how little he could do to change 

unless he knew in his heart what would change him.

Love this picture

The tree in my yard.

I talked to a tree - and it was so powerful! And as I felt it more closely it got scary because it seemed almost angry at me, so i asked: Why are you angry at me? I felt it was disappointed with me. It said I was living a pretty meaningless life. So, what should I do?, I asked, and it said I should make friends. I said: How? It said: Be friendly! Nice! Not let your quirkiness be a hindrance, but put others before yourself. It was right. I should do that and not just run after boys.

Tre viktige arketyper som religiøs/spirituell

Maria: kjærlig omsorg, Jesus: kjærlig visdom og Det indre barnet: den Gud elsker.

Den Gud elsker er mennesket som har valgt å bli Guds barn som mottar all den kjærlighet og visdom hun trenger for å bli mer som Jesus og Maria. Det som skiller en ekte religiøs fra en som er skinnhellig er at den ekte har blitt som et barn ved å ha kastet fra seg sitt gamle jeg: Omvendt seg fra synd og troen på at hun selv vet best og kan klare seg kun ved menneskelig hjelp, samt behovet for å bli akseptert, trodd, forstått og betraktet som normal av andre.

Ved å ønske å tjene Gud, kjærlig som Jesus og Maria, vil barnet motta og tilegne seg de guddommelige egenskapene så de kan komme til uttrykk på en unik og best mulig måte, samt av Gud motta hjelp for å overkomme sitt lavere selv (bli helgenaktig).
Noen såkalt spirituelle (new-agere) oppfattes av meg som om de med stolthet tror de er bedre (mer spirituelle) enn religiøse mennesker fordi de innbiller seg at religiøse mennesker er skinnhellige og ikke tenker selv. (Selv om noen religiøse er slik betyr det ikke at det er kjennetegnet på en som er religiøs. Jeg synes det er mer presis å si at noen religiøse er mindre engasjerte i den spirituelle verden enn andre.) Gud ber oss derimot om å finne sannheten selv (vha den hellige ånd, selvsagt.) Å bære en fasade og ikke tenke selv er derimot kjennetegnet på en smålig person. Jeg tror også at de som oppfatter andre som skinnhellige gjør dette fordi de selv er det i en eller annen grad og at det new-agere mangler for å virkelig bli spirituelle er den moral religiøse er opptatt av, samt den totale omvendelsen til Gud som må til for å overkomme stoltheten som hindrer enhver dyd (inkludert den visdom og løsrevne holdning som må til for å "tenke Selv". (Man blir ikke klok av å tenke selv, men ved å kunne reflektere tanker fra høyere bevissthet.)