What is it about masturbation that is no good? Is it the
energy that are removed with the orgasme? Is it the fantasies? The focus
on it? Is it that you do not make a union? What if you do it to raise
the energy and do not have a normal (top) orgasme and don't touch
yourself physical at all, or as a meditation where you give up your own
will? Is masturbation wrong when it is done just to have pleasure? or
release tention?
What is sex? Is it the action
or the purpose of doing it the most important? There should
be no shame in our sex life. That is why this topic is important to discuss.
I have wanted to understand what it is about sex before marriage that is
wrong and have given it much thought and also experimenting. Is it
because it can make children? Is it because noone should be used for
pleasure, is it because the energy should not be used for pleasure? It is not for pleasure but for making union? Is
it because they don't love each other yet? Is it because many get
feelings for someone they have sex with and the same don't always happen with the other?
And why is it forbidden to love
someone of the same sex physically? Is it because of the energies that do not
unite, or do they unite? Is it the anal- sex that is unhealthy? Is it unhealthy physically or energetically? Is it because God never
meant that some of the same sex should fall for each other, but that
something happened that made someone stumble out of the straight line?
For me the most important to understand now is the
energy-aspect of relationships and methods. Anal sex has some effects
that genital sex hasn't. Not very much is known about the subject
unfortunately, and not strangely, since it is tabu. Everything can be
negative or positive, it depends on when /where it is used. If it is
suitable or not.
Can something done in love or making love be a sin? I don't think so. If what you do, either you do it by your self or someone else no matter the gender, it is pure when love is involved. When the ego is withdrawn everything is well.
