For years we’ve assumed that romantic relationships had to begin with physical attraction in order to expand into the desire for a close emotional bond. Now it’s turning out that relationships can begin with the urge to bond to someone. They may later expand to encompass sexual desire. This type of transition is especially natural for women, but some men have this experience, too.
When I’m really emotionally bonded to someone, I find myself becoming physically attracted to them.—Lisa
Makes me think about dating and how we are suppose to find out if we like each other enough already on the first date. To check if there is "chemistry" meaning physical attraction. No wonder dating doesn't work very well when there is not given time to bond on another level than the physical. If the bond is only on the mental level we assume the person will only be our friend, at most. Because it is not given time enough how we look becomes very important. First impression is everything. What we say on the first date says "everything" about us.
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