Muslim quotes about sex

Not one of you should fullfill one’s (sexual) need by falling upon his wife like an animal, but let there first be a messenger between you." "And what is that messenger?" they asked, and he replied: "Kisses and words"— Musnad al-Firdaws Of al-Daylami, 2/55

Imam Ibn al-Qayyim reports from Jabir ibn Abd Allah in his famous “Tibb al-Nabawi” that the Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him & give him peace) forbade from engaging in sexual intercourse before foreplay.— al-Tibb al-Nabawi, 183

Any kind of vaginal sex position is permissible in Islam, but not anal sex.

In Islam, the husband should have intercourse with his wife according to what satisfies her, as long as that does not harm him physically or keep him from earning a living. The husband is obliged to treat his wife in a kind and reasonable manner. Part of that kind and reasonable treatment is intercourse, which he has to do. Most of the scholars have said that it is obligatory on women alike not to refuse their husbands if they call them as long as the woman who is called is not menstruating or sick in such a way that intercourse will be harmful to her, or observing an obligatory fast. If she refuses with no excuse, then she is cursed. "If a man calls his wife to his bed, and she refuses to come, the angels curse her until morning comes."

— al-Bukhari, 3065; Muslim, 1436. But it is not permissible for a husband to force his wife to do more than she is able to bear of intercourse. If she has an excuse such as being sick or unable to bear it, then she is not sinning if she refuses to have intercourse. Under Islam, sexual intercourse is regarded as a loving act within marriage and should only be by mutual consent.

Sexual intercourse is prohibited:
During menstruation; Verse 2:222 prohibits sexual relations with women during menstruation. Muhammad specifically restricts the injunction "to segregate the women" and "not go near them" in 2:222 to a prohibition against sexual relations with menstruating women.
for forty days after childbirth (puerperium);
during the daylight hours of the month of Ramadan (i.e. while fasting);
on pilgrimage; while in the sanctuary (in Ahram) at Mecca, pilgrims are not allowed to have intercourse. Marriages performed during the pilgrimage are invalid.

Marriage is part of my sunnah, and whoever does not follow my sunnah has nothing to do with me. Get married, for I will boast of your great numbers before the nations. Whoever has the means, let him get married, and whoever does not, then he should fast for it will diminish his desire."— Ibn Majah 1846. The Messenger of Allah forbade celibacy.

Ma’qil ibn Yasaar said: A man came to the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) and said, “I have found a woman who is of good lineage and is beautiful, but she can not bear children. Should I marry her?” He said, “No.” Then he came again with the same question and he told him not to marry her. Then he came a third time with the same question and he said: “Marry those who are loving and fertile, for I will be proud of your great numbers before the other nations.— Abu Dawood (2050)

Narrated 'Abdullah: We used to participate in the holy battles led by Allah's Messenger and we had no wives with us. So we said, "Shall we get ourselves castrated?" He forbade us that and then allowed us to marry women with a temporary contract and recited to us:— 'O you who believe ! Make not unlawful the good things which Allah has made lawful for you, but commit no transgression.

After partaking in sexual activity where penetration or ejaculation occurs, both men and women are required to complete a full-body ritual ablution known as ghusl in order to re-establish ritual purity before prayer.

According to Qura'nic verse 2:187, one may have sex during the month of Ramadan, but not during the time of fasting. As such, sex during Ramadan is only permitted at night.

Tell the faithful men to cast down their looks and to guard their private parts ...Tell the faithful women to cast down their looks and to guard their private parts, and not to display their charms except what is apparent thereof and put their scarves over their bosoms...— (Quran 24:30-31)

We also sent Lot: He said to his people: "Do ye commit lewdness such as no people in creation (ever) committed before you? For ye practice your lusts on men in preference to women: Ye are indeed a people transgressing beyond bounds."— Quran 7:80–81

This is all found here: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Islamic_sexual_jurisprudence?fbclid=IwAR03gWUDpAFezHl7-tq3RnHYkqQzy9zM4T1LovzA5PeOI9LDNeyaYOEmwSo

The effect of mantras on sexual energy

I feel unbalanced when there is too much sexual energy in certain areas only. I had a lot of sexual energy floating freelee today so I thought I would try to draw it up from the lower chakras by saying my personal mantra (I made by using the words I commonly use when I speak in tounges). When I had repeated it some times I suddenly disappeared into the energy. All I saw was the energy and another woman , with long golden hair, saying another mantra at the same time as me. When I perceived her I became her for a second and spoke her mantra with her voice. Afterwards I said the Bahai mantra Allah-u-Abha and I immediately felt the energy spread out and got a relief from the feeling of being turned on. It is important that the mind is free from thoughts about sex to be able to move the energy from the lowest chakras. If you think about something sensual the energy will stay at the sensual level. If you instead focus on God the energy will definitely move from the physical level. 

I have written about somthing similar earlier in Norwegian here :https://mintankesamling.blogspot.com/2017/10/energiorgasme-tungetale-personlig-mantra.html

Unholy sex

When I'm selfless in Paradise and filled up with divine perfection I am truly happy and don't want to go back to myself and the world where I know I will commit sin, knowingly and unknowingly, caught up in the laws of the world.

I don't know how to cope living outside Paradise with a body and ego without committing sin: Without sex, my substitute for Gods love and without men, my substitute for the Lord. I don't know how to live according to His laws in a world where nothing (relationships) last for long and people want immediate gratification. Where hardly anyone truly believe in God and marriage. 

I asked God: Can something (sex) be sinful if it doesn't hurt anyone? Then I saw a small white church. Heard its bells ringing loud and clear and understood: Marriage is holy. It is the law of God. Sin is committed when we break Gods law. Sex outside marriage is therefor not holy. 

In my experience when I have sex within a relationship and it is love involved I don't feel bad afterwards. When I have had sex without love God let me see and feel dirt in the light. (I do hope the dirt I see is cleansed in the light instead of merely being showed to me.:)

I wonder if God think that any type of sex, with or without love, within the holy marriage is holy and not worse than sex with love outside a marriage. I think we all know the answer to my question. No need to ask God about it. Sex without love in a marriage is not more holy than sex with love outside a marriage. A holy relationship doesn't automatically make everything within that relationship holy. God blesses a relationship based on love. If on the contrary a relationship is based on sex it isn't holy and He wont bless it. Not because sex isnt holy, but sex is not holy when people first and foremost wants sex, not love, from each other. Sex is holy, but can be misused for the sake of pleasure and by that degraded.

So an important thing to ask oneself is: Why do I want to be with this person? Do I really want to live and love or am I basically just interested in the persons sexuality? If there is little attraction to the mind and heart then we better look somewhere else. It is our motives that determines the outcome.

I dont agree that sex is intended for procreation only, but that doesnt mean I think it is meant only for pleasure instead. No. We are more than animals that has an instinct that tells us to make babies and we are more than the flesh that wants to take delight in eartly pleasures. Sex can be a latter to heaven as a meditation to connect with God, a means to share love and by having sex for a long time enliven a deeper feeling of love. A way to experience unity with another person and the loss of ego and the expansion of consciousness. Because sex has so much potensial we should'nt misuse it. Without love sex is degraded and empty. Sex is about unity. The unity God wants us to experience - the love that trancends all differences - is possible to experience through the sex act.

To say sex is something we need like food is to degrade it to a physical matter! I am sad to see this belief among religious people. Of course sex is holy. It is so precious it have to be kept within the holy marriage. Two people who are naked together can be totally naked, meaning on every level, vulnerable, show who they are for real behind the masks, and still be loved. Sex can be a ladder to experience God, so no,  it is not like eating. If it wasn't sacred why would God say to gay and single people that they should avoid sex? Sex unifies people and God is all about unity, Bahais knows that very well. Unity is divine. If people have sex as if they are just a body then I get why they don't think it is anything special. 

Some say sex is just a physical act so it can not be holy. It isn't even done in heaven. The physical aspect of it is just the frame of it all. People can have sex for different reasons. Some wants to just get rid of tension, some like the pleasure of it, some like the romantic aspect, some like that it is a way to show love and some use it as a form of meditation to connect with the divine. When two people are vulnerable together all kinds of emotions can emerge and be taken care of by the partner. Sex can be all about love and unity on every level. It is not just a physical act.