Not one of you should fullfill one’s (sexual) need by falling upon his wife like an animal, but let there first be a messenger between you." "And what is that messenger?" they asked, and he replied: "Kisses and words"— Musnad al-Firdaws Of al-Daylami, 2/55
Imam Ibn al-Qayyim reports from Jabir ibn Abd Allah in his famous “Tibb al-Nabawi” that the Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him & give him peace) forbade from engaging in sexual intercourse before foreplay.— al-Tibb al-Nabawi, 183
Any kind of vaginal sex position is permissible in Islam, but not anal sex.
In Islam, the husband should have intercourse with his wife according to what satisfies her, as long as that does not harm him physically or keep him from earning a living. The husband is obliged to treat his wife in a kind and reasonable manner. Part of that kind and reasonable treatment is intercourse, which he has to do. Most of the scholars have said that it is obligatory on women alike not to refuse their husbands if they call them as long as the woman who is called is not menstruating or sick in such a way that intercourse will be harmful to her, or observing an obligatory fast. If she refuses with no excuse, then she is cursed. "If a man calls his wife to his bed, and she refuses to come, the angels curse her until morning comes."
— al-Bukhari, 3065; Muslim, 1436. But it is not permissible for a husband to force his wife to do more than she is able to bear of intercourse. If she has an excuse such as being sick or unable to bear it, then she is not sinning if she refuses to have intercourse. Under Islam, sexual intercourse is regarded as a loving act within marriage and should only be by mutual consent.
Sexual intercourse is prohibited:
- during menstruation; Verse 2:222 prohibits sexual relations with women during menstruation. Muhammad specifically restricts the injunction "to segregate the women" and "not go near them" in 2:222 to a prohibition against sexual relations with menstruating women.
- for forty days after childbirth (puerperium);
- during the daylight hours of the month of Ramadan (i.e. while fasting);
- on pilgrimage; while in the sanctuary (in Ahram) at Mecca, pilgrims are not allowed to have intercourse. Marriages performed during the pilgrimage are invalid.
Marriage is part of my sunnah, and whoever does not follow my sunnah has nothing to do with me. Get married, for I will boast of your great numbers before the nations. Whoever has the means, let him get married, and whoever does not, then he should fast for it will diminish his desire."— Ibn Majah 1846. The Messenger of Allah forbade celibacy.
Ma’qil ibn Yasaar said: A man came to the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) and said, “I have found a woman who is of good lineage and is beautiful, but she can not bear children. Should I marry her?” He said, “No.” Then he came again with the same question and he told him not to marry her. Then he came a third time with the same question and he said: “Marry those who are loving and fertile, for I will be proud of your great numbers before the other nations.— Abu Dawood (2050)
Narrated 'Abdullah: We used to participate in the holy battles led by Allah's Messenger and we had no wives with us. So we said, "Shall we get ourselves castrated?" He forbade us that and then allowed us to marry women with a temporary contract and recited to us:— 'O you who believe ! Make not unlawful the good things which Allah has made lawful for you, but commit no transgression.
After partaking in sexual activity where penetration or ejaculation occurs, both men and women are required to complete a full-body ritual ablution known as ghusl in order to re-establish ritual purity before prayer.
Tell the faithful men to cast down their looks and to guard their private parts ...Tell the faithful women to cast down their looks and to guard their private parts, and not to display their charms except what is apparent thereof and put their scarves over their bosoms...— (Quran 24:30-31)
We also sent Lot: He said to his people: "Do ye commit lewdness such as no people in creation (ever) committed before you? For ye practice your lusts on men in preference to women: Ye are indeed a people transgressing beyond bounds."— Quran 7:80–81
This is all found here: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Islamic_sexual_jurisprudence?fbclid=IwAR03gWUDpAFezHl7-tq3RnHYkqQzy9zM4T1LovzA5PeOI9LDNeyaYOEmwSo
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