Victorian sex

Overstimulation of the pleasure receptors with orgasm can desensitise the brain to pleasure or create a craving for more, leading to unhealthy cravings and an imbalance in the brain's harmony. 

​The practice, karezza, encourages both men and women to abstain from orgasm during sex, in order to allow both partners to enjoy longer, and more intense, periods of sexual energy. Rather than focusing on physical desires karezza, derived from the Italian carezza which means caress, encourages couples to focus on intimacy involving eye gazing and light touching. 

When we really tune in to these sensations, a bit like electricity running through our body, then our whole body can become orgasmic. This creates a full-body orgasm that can last as long as we chose for it to, instead of the rather brief type of genital orgasm. 

Woman, sex, love and her shadow.

The shadow in woman is her emotionality, which attaches her to an impossible dream of personal love. When the shadow is able to influence her decisions and choices, the selection of a partner will eventuate circumstances in the relationship that bring to the surface hidden emotional fears and self-doubt. Woman’s subconscious impulse is to unite with her essential nature of impersonal love. In her natural state she emanates a power which brings to her a man who represents her formless love within. When in touch with her love, she is one with the earth and the cosmos, whose delight is to provide her with all that is needed for her pleasure and fulfilment in life. This idealised love cannot be realised universally; but only in the individual woman who has suffered enough and refuses to compromise with the demands of sex without love.

To emerge from the shadow and unite with her true nature, a woman must be prepared to make a stand for love. Never again must she entertain an excitable, impatient man who is unable through his actions to demonstrate that he’s worthy of her love. She has to see that the cause of her discontent and heartache has been her willingness in the past to surrender herself to the sexual force of men instead of the power of love in man. A man can only realise his authenticity and power to love through a woman who refuses to compromise with the effects of past sexual dishonesty. And she can only do this when the shadow in her has been enlightened in love and no longer able to drag her down into the depths of despair. Of course, to banish the shadow for good is a momentous undertaking and requires a man to be willing to enter the profundity of woman and be vulnerable to love. Lance Kelly

Intercourse like masturbation

Rudolph von Urban: The local relaxation of the sex organs through orgasm would diminish the body's tension less effectively than the expulsion of the bio-electricity from the whole body. That is the reason why the local irritation produced by masturbation brings depression and still greater tension in the wake of a few seconds of local satisfaction, the friction itself having served to produce a further charge of radiations, thus tensing the body's cells. Reasoning along these lines, it becomes clear that sexual intercourse, inadequately prepared for and of too brief duration, is nothing other than a form of masturbation, since it fails to take into account the necessary delivery of the whole body from its "overcharge."" Sex Perfection and Marital Happiness, page 109, published in 1949.

Hvordan jeg fikk kontakt med det guddommelige

Om du går rundt og tror du er større og viktigere enn Gud og uavhengig av Gud får du selvfølgelig ikke kontakt med Gud og du overdriver din egen betydning. Nettopp fordi du ikke innser hvor verdifull du faktisk er innbiller du deg at du er større enn du er ved å blåse deg opp. Om du vil motta noe fra Gud må du betrakte deg selv som avhengig og liten i forhold til Gud. Du er ingenting. Gud er alt. Når du har blitt ingenting er du ett med Gud som er alt. Jeg fikk et personlig forhold til Gud da jeg ble overbevist om Guds eksistens. Om at den kjærlige Gud Jesus snakket om som så gjerne ville ha tilbake den sauen som var blitt borte fra han, og som visste hvor mange hårstrå det var på alle menneskers hode var reell og brydde seg her og nå. Når jeg ble overbevist fikk jeg svært nær kontakt. Jeg følte at vi var forelsket i hverandre omtrent. Mye sterkere enn forelskelse mellom mennesker. Og jeg så Gud som en åndelig sol som skinte på meg hele tiden og jeg så jeg strålte ut strålene fra denne åndelige sola. Men før jeg fikk et personlig forhold til Gud fikk jeg kontakt med det guddommelige pga menneskelig kjærlighet, da jeg endelig fikk erfare den. Da tenkte jeg at kjærlighet er kjærlighet i forskjellige grader, så når jeg nå har kontakt med kjærligheten kan jeg strekke meg videre til den guddommelige kjærligheten.. Så det gjorde jeg. Den guddommelige kjærligheten kan gjøre sååå mye mer enn den personlige kan.

Gud, en person?

Gud er den uskapte, så Gud kan ikke være en person, men Gud personifiseres lett siden profeter manifesterer Gud mens de har menneskekropp. Gud sier, via Bahaullah, at alle Guds egenskaper er latent i vårt indre, slik at vi mennesker liksom kan personifisere Gud vi også. Det er vel det vi alle har så vanskelig for; å se det guddommelige løsrevet fra skaperverket. Et menneske som f.eks har disiplin og omsorgsevne kaller vi disiplinert og omsorgsfull, men dette mennesket velger bare å ta disse evnene i bruk til en viss grad mer enn andre som ikke blir kalt det samme. Vi har alle tilgang på det samme. Det er opp til enhver hva de velger å uttrykke. Alt er fra samme kilde, Gud. Vi får alle gleden av å kunne gi uttrykk for det guddommelige. Men vi klarer det ikke som hovmodige, stolte, late osv. og derfor advares vi også mot å uttrykke disse manglene. Vi må ikke tillate oss å bli hengende i en tilværelse av uttrykk for mangler, men oppsøke det vi trenger, enten det er motivasjon mot lathet eller gavmildhet mot gjerrighet. Vi må ikke tillate oss å føle oss uverdige når vi alle kan være storartede.

Problemer med stolthet? Om du setter andre før deg selv kan du ikke være oppblåst. Problem solved.

Love and sex

To make love can never be a sin. Love is pure. Having sex is a different matter. 
If you don't act out of love what you do is a sin.

Lolita for a day and kriyas

I'm so thankful for the kriyas! The stronger the kriyas the better, I think. I speak in tounges sometimes and have wondered who I am talking to, who I long for so intensely and deeply, so I asked today who it was while I was in the middle of the kriya-mood and felt a yearning for this someone, and I could see and feel the loving energy from the virgin Mary!

Today I used a lot more words when I spoke in tounges than usual, even though I have had 4 clitoral orgasms this month and two of them recent. I have even sinned and afterwards felt dirty. I lived out my Lolita fantasies, that was. I didn't think it was dirty before after it happened. The day after I thought I had to either try to like the guy who touched me but couldn't have me, or reject him totally, because soon he would like to be desired too. I am amaced that I was able to like him the same day. Just because I wanted to. I thought I should try to not be serious, but just have fun. We had a fantastic day together today. I was attracted to him. Wanted to touch him many times. This day was full of unpredictability. Very exciting.